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7 Best Answer in the poll "Different Relationships Religion"

Last week, Yahoo! SHE held a poll about interfaith relations. About 6000 readers participated in the poll and some of them also voiced their opinions on this issue, and the following seven best answers according to Yahoo! SHE.

Seven readers below are entitled to a MAC cosmetics package worth $ 1 million. Retrieval can be done in the office Yahoo! Indonesia, Sentra Senayan II Floor 8, Jalan Asia Afrika No.. 8, Central Jakarta, or sent by mail to the winner out of Jakarta, after a confirmation by email to kuis@yahoo-inc.com Bios

1. Vietha, Sidoarjo in East Java I included that underwent interfaith relations. I was 3 years old and my girlfriend menjalananinya until this moment are still together. previously have not thought about any serious intention to move towards a more distant. but over time it grew into a love deeper, and then there is a sense to be afraid to lose. is not easy living a relationship with a difference, especially it concerns a conviction. I've discussed this with your girlfriend, how the continuation of this relationship. but too sad when discussing it, because I know, there's no way out for this kind of relationship unless either party would mengalah.namun between me and him, we had the same hang on to their beliefs and there was never any intention of weeks to force one parties to change beliefs. during our courtship was certainly there are times when we fight, but during my travels, until this moment was, when I fight and the boyfriend was never a problem to associate a different religion, because we know that one of our keys still hold together until now "mutual respect ". because differences exist not to blame, not to be hated for being different but that we look after each other, love each other, and the importance of mutual respect with each other.
 
2. Shevryn Priscilla, DKI Jakarta Courtship of religious differences that I think is not good .. Indeed, all religions teach good, but the difference is in how we live our religion .. A simple example when I have a couple of different religions, I am Christian and he is Buddha. We have a way of looking for something different. I think that religion is the basis we think and act. Even my partner Catholic, I am also confused with worship on Sundays, because his way of worship is also berbada not?! Thus, it is good faith because the couple should have the same foundation.

3. Only Tia, DI YogyakartaI've been in touch a different religion, I really liked him because he really understands and loves me, but during sex we never talked about our religious differences, and we always stay away from topics krna trsbt we do not want to create bad feelings for each other. But it turns out they will be a time bomb for our hub. One day we had to split up because no one of us who are willing to sacrifice his religion. I deeply regret my choice to spend most of my life within DYA who eventually became my husband was ill for a very large fence stood firm in front of us, the religious differences. I do not want to repeat the same mistakes.4. Devis Mora, Kupangdifferences well, it's rather difficult emang (generally), because I'm menjalanin relationship with a difference. but what can we do? difference in this world was created so that more beautiful.for sure, love is not created by humans as well as differences.KNP? Differences god who created humans but destructiveas well as love: D5. Sulfa Fariana, DKI Jakartareligion or belief it is a heart problem that can not be imposed, in my opinion if hubunganny still a couple, not a problem because that's not including the prohibition of religion, but when the relationship is like dedicated to the commitment of marriage, have not been able to because every religion has its respective rules and actually in their own religions is prohibited marriage with different religions, except by way of conversion, we can not mengaggap that all religions are equal and have the same rule, marriage is not only to the extent we live with our loved ones but here are the Laws of God we must obey, in my opinion this does not mean I reject the difference, the difference is the beautiful gift of God that we can not deny because of the differences we know each other and complement each other, but we also have to be in place krena menmpatkan difference is our commitment sebgai servant of God.6. Yuri, DKI JakartaInterfaith relationships, I think it should be considered more mature because if we just call it dating possible for today's teen-ok ok just because they had an experimental stage but if for a wedding kejenjang we should think again because we are married not only with our spouses but with all family members and relatives of our partners. If a problem occurs when the family would be very difficult to reconcile the idea because it is different from the initial principles of the vision and mission. Especially when it already has a child would be difficult to steer the handle of his life (religion). If you are a Muslim (woman) is forbidden to marry because of religious differences but it is considered adultery when a Muslim man gets a pair of non-Muslims are permitted by the terms he can be a leader responsible for the family. Let us be wise in deciding as "LOVE" is not enough to establish a relationship.7. Dwi, DKI JakartaNever .. berbicra tntng religious differences are very sensitive, time-out tp pd tntang mnjlnkannya lot of learning which is very high tolerance, mutual respect for differences among us n family, bnyk khidupn sehari2 differences in ill-org dpt all feel it, tp da aj a reply mslh grow out of its masing2 kt Because a difference that was hardly kt take the solution, mslh bnyk recrudescent family dr kt dissentient, finally selecting one kt hrs pilihn to perpish .. by kbaikan together